Kind of a sad thread. Relationships all have their ups and downs ... I'm content thinking about how much joy the band's music has brought me over the years and how much fun I've had at the concerts I've attended. Every member past and present has made a contribution to help make Crowded House what it is today. And after all these years (and all the life changes I've had since first discovering Crowded House in college), the fact that I'm counting down the days to when I get to see the band again (74!) says something in my book.