Minutes ago I watched the promo video for Woodface five minutes ago mentioned in the Crowded House forum, and especially the first part of it where Paulo is explaining the finer points of drinking tea made me laugh (again).
But it's not only when I see videos, it's also when I'm at a (non-finn-frenz) concert where the interaction between the band and/or the audience is practically zero, that I sometimes wonder what would've happened if someone like Paul Hester were in the band.
And for no particular reason, some months ago I had a dream where Paul was in. He was sitting in a living room, and when he saw everyone that came in, he was scared that they/we all would yell at him for doing what he did, but everyone was just glad to see him again, hugged him and sort of forgave him and comforted him.
It's not that I think about him every minute of the day, but he is certainly not forgotten.