Greg has the right idea, I know many a baby that was encouraged to make their appearance after mom & dad had a nice bout of bed dancing! I use to be a host for a couple of years over on babyzone.com and I think I have read it all regarding pregnancy and birth. It's very frightening, especially when you are informed and educated. Seriously! I use to wish I could be as blindly innocent about pregnancy as these newbies that posted on the msg boards. People think that once you get to the end of 9 months that it's all in the bag and it's not. Woman have to constantly fight & stand up for themselves when it comes to the ob/gyn and midwives. You end up pestering and fighting for the reassuring ultrasounds, the quanatative hcg levels and for a safe delivery at all cost. I mean, we all know that it's not like they want make us miserable and fearful of our baby's safety, but I think too often they get too desensitized to the whole process and forget that us mothers are privately freaking out in our minds about a million things and we know we have no control over any of it! We need comfort, reassurance and someone to be proactive and take control, not someone to dismiss us as a hormonal sleep deprived pain in the rear.